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The Culturally Acceptable Sin


The sermon last Sunday was on the 7th chapter of Joshua, a sobering chapter that deals with sin in the Israelite camp. It begins with a sin committed by Achan, one member of the tribe of Judah.

When the Israelites took the city of Jericho as recorded in chapter 6, God tells them not to take anything from the siege. But, Achan disobeys and takes some of the “accursed” things and then lies about it. Not only does he lie, but his entire family goes along with the lie. When Achan is confronted, he continues to lie, then eventually confesses. The cover up was because of clothing and money he coveted.

Coveting is covered in the Ten Commandments God gave to Moses. Achan’s sin was coveting, but that also lead to deception. Achan saw, coveted and took. Then he lied. As a consequence, Achan and his entire family were stoned to death, burned and made into a rock memorial to remind people to obey God’s commandments.

In Joshua 7, the nature of sin is clearly spelled out. Sin is deceptive, it hurts others whether we think it does or not, it stirs God’s anger and it weakens us in battle.

Achan’s punishment is harsh, but it speaks to a healthy fear of the Lord. Sin is nothing to fool with in terms of its consequences.

According to Webster, coveting is an inordinate desire for what belongs to another. Think about that. Most advertising is built on this premise. We want what others have and are reinforced to be dissatisfied with the status quo.

During the Sunday service, we were all given time to examine our hearts. Is discontentment related to coveting what others have? If so, rather than hide that sin, we need to confess it, the sooner the better. While we thankfully live under the grace of God now, unconfessed sin blocks our relationships and impacts our families.

Ask yourself, are you engaging in secret sin? Are you coveting your neighbor’s house, car, wife or even lifestyle? Perhaps coveting is so common in our culture today that we don’t even recognize it. In many ways, it has become a culturally acceptable sin.

The good news is that the power of sin is completely broken by the righteousness of Christ. When we confess our sin, He is faithful and just and will forgive us and cleanse us (John 1:9).

Achan’s life is a reminder that if we live with hidden sin, it not only has repercussions for us, but also for those we love. Achan's entire family paid for his sin with their lives. So, obey God, resist the temptation to covet and confess secret sins.

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# RE: The Culturally Acceptable Sin

I was guilty and felt convicted in my spirit about this. Because of my broken past I had escaped into the lives of celebrities and the Hollywood lifestyle. I mostly coveted appearances and body shapes of the latest hot "IT" actress. I thought "if I just look like her, I would have a better life." I struggled with this "secret sin" for years. What I didn't realize is, I was looking for acceptance from my father or any man that would pay attention to me- ultimately The Father, Christ. HE never leaves you nor forsakes you.

I agree with the author that covetousness, jealousy and envy are very acceptable sins in American culture because of things like "the grass is greener," and keeping up with the Jonses. If you don't ask the Lord to search your heart daily and ask for his forgiveness; this so called secret sin can destroy your peace- and your walk with HIM. -Great article.
Left by terese008 on Feb 03, 2012 10:19 AM