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Linda Mintle, Ph.D. is a licensed marriage and family therapist, author of 16 books, a national expert on family issues and the psychology of food and weight. She's an assistant professor in the department of pediatrics at Eastern Virginia Medical School, a national speaker, writer, and news contributor.

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When Tiger Woods Became Like the Rest of Us


Last Friday, you couldn’t turn on a television without seeing major coverage of Tiger Woods’ now famous apology. (I had my opportunity to chime in on CBN’s Newswatch that day as well.) I was fascinated by how this story captivated not only media, but everyday people going about their business. Everyone had an opinion. You didn’t have to be a golf enthusiast to follow the story.

Tiger Woods represents the American dream, a hard working guy who made it big. Imaged as a wholesome family man, surrounded by adorable children and a beautiful wife, you just couldn’t help liking him. He didn’t make obnoxious statements of how great he was, endearing himself to many as a talented, cool guy who was a role model for kids. And Tiger got those of us who didn’t care about golf to actually watch the game! When it all came crashing down, and Tiger became one of us, we were so disappointed.

Once again we learned the lesson: Tiger is just a man, broken, human, and struggling like the rest of humanity. Like all of us, Tiger was born into sin; and without the redemption of Christ, he will continue to struggle with temptation. That is a lesson media will not report because they don’t want to step on toes. I get that. From a secular point of view, any spirituality is viewed as helpful.

In Buddhism, there is no transcendent creator who created the world. There is no Garden of Eden or fall of humanity in need of a personal Savior who can save and atone for sin. The world simply exists with no beginning and no ending. Life as we know it is full of an endless cycle of suffering, which is caused by attachments to and cravings for worldly pleasure. The self is nothing more than a delusion and is the cause of unhappiness. Suffering ends when cravings cease and all delusions are eliminated. When this is experienced, enlightenment is reached. Buddha, the enlightened one, shows the path to this awakening.

Buddhism provides a way for people to engage in spirituality without having to contend with a personal God. Fate is believed to be in one’s control and growth comes through self-effort. At its core, Buddhism commits the original sin: to go one’s own way apart from God.

So my continued prayer for Tiger Woods is that he will be transformed by the One who can truly change his life, mend his relationships, and heal his broken heart. We are all sinners in need of redemption whether we recognize this or not. What I saw in Tiger’s statement was a man who lost control of his life and is desperately trying to bring it back on course through self-effort. Like Brit Hume, I pray that he will one day encounter Christ and know what true surrender can bring to his life.

Are you praying for Tiger? How did you respond to his apology?


~ Dr. Linda




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Comments on this post

# RE: When Tiger Woods Became Like the Rest of Us

I PRAY THAT TIGER WOO AND HIS FAMILY WILL BE SAVE BY GIVE THEIR LIFE TO JESUS AND HE CAN RESTORE HIM.HE NEED PRAYER AS WE ALL DO. NOT PEOPLE MAKE THING BAD AS SOME PEOPLE ON TV ARE DOING.
Left by kimlou3 on Feb 26, 2010 6:41 PM

# RE: When Tiger Woods Became Like the Rest of Us

God is a great father, Hallelujah! I am not trying to judge Tiger Woods. However, he could have repent his misbehavior in front of his friends and family members. He doesn't have to be a dedicated born again christian to do this. However, if the ego rules your life you will never humble yourself.

James 3:16 (New International Version)

16 For where you have envy and selfish ambition, there you find disorder and every evil practice.
Left by Habtamu on Mar 10, 2010 10:45 AM

# RE: When Tiger Woods Became Like the Rest of Us

There is a way that seems right to man however its way and meanings lead to death. I say that to say this. Yes it is important for him to be a born again Christian reason being is because he is the head and in order for his marriage to be healed and blessed he needs to humble himself to the knowledge and grace of Jesus Christ. False religion can cause a host of problems and i know this thru experience.
Left by 2fly1day on Mar 21, 2010 1:15 PM