We can try to help, only to find we are helpless. We can give and find that their needs are a bottomless pit that can never be filled up. We can see the results of their addictions as far as what they have lost, how they live, how they parent and so many things, but do they see? No way and they don’t appreciate you trying to help them see, either! It is truly out of our hands and must be given over to the hands of God.
Many of us have tapes because we have been programmed with them since childhood. My tapes are of abandonment and abuse. They tell me to be weary of everyone and trust no one, that I’m not pretty enough, I’m a crumby mother and a worse wife ... What do your tapes tell you?