As we make a list, we are taking a step away from our addiction or destructive behavior and a step closer to looking at the real problem – US! We need to come face-to-face with our character defects, our emotional makeup, and identify our flawed thinking. Starting with our current lifestyle, what are we doing that is morally upstanding? What are we doing that is clearly immoral? What behaviors or patterns of thinking are hurtful to us or others? What is helpful? These are questions that help the