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Who am I to Give Diet Advice?

Sometimes in my daily life -- telling others how to live more healthfully and to "be like me" sounds a bit self-centered to me.  Then I have to then sit back and remember why it is that I was put in this role and what it is that I am supposed to do to help you.

Let’s start at the beginning; Fourteen years ago, I weighed 305 pounds. I know this because my bathroom scale said it, my body felt it and my clothes didn't fit. But, I can only prove  that I weighed 290.  That was the last time I let the nurse weigh me at the doctors office! LOL

In January 1995, a homeless man (who I now believe to be my guardian angel) sized me up and shouted “Girl, you got too much food in you” very loudly in a very crowded public place. I was humiliated, certainly, but thankfully I was humbled at the same time. I listened to his words.  He didn’t call me “fat” or tease me.  He made an accurate observation about me.

That day, I swore off the one food I could easily identify as my “favorite” or the thing I knew I had “too much of” in me — ice cream! It has been over 12 years and I haven’t had a bite, not even a dip’n dot, of it! That was the first of many changes I made or “vices” that I busted.

After changing my life, slowly and gradually ONE change at a time, I shared my story with Woman's World magazine and hundreds of women said, "Nice story, all about YOU, but HOW did you do it and can I do it too!?"

Since then my mission and my passion has become to answer the question of "HOW" and to help YOU do exactly what I did and continue to do to this day.

 I call my approach “Vice Busting” and I am so proud that highly respected men such as Dr. David L. Katz and Dr. Mehmet Oz have said that my approach is sound, doable and will work. I hope that soon YOU will be saying that too!

Motivation to lose weight isn't enough to actually help you lose weight! It also requires taking action on your part! My job in this CBN blog is going to be to motivate you, educate you and inspire you so that you take action. And, most importantly that you keep taking action each day that will get you further on the path of improved health and fitness that you desire.

The first step to change is realizing and admitting that you want to change!

 Then, you must figure out your "WHY".

 I like to think of myself as being the most obnoxious child who continually asks you "why" after you answer a question they have. What I mean by that is it is not enough for you to answer "to have more energy" when asked "why do you want to lose weight?"

 WHY do you want more energy?

 WHY will having more energy change your life?

 What will do you with this newfound energy?

The journal that comes with my program helps you figure out your "whys" for that question but also to all of the questions that you must answer if you are to truly and forever change.

 My "why" is much different today than it was when I was 300 pounds, and then it was to move without getting winded, to be able to keep up with my kids in the park. Now, 13 years later and 130 pounds thinner, my "why" is to see how fit I can get, to see how defined I can make my arms or my calves--what's happened to them? Man-calves as I call them, so my current challenge is to get them more toned and shapely.

KNOW your "WHY" and then you better know your path! And you will succeed!


KNOW your "WHY" and then you better know your path! And you will succeed!

Tell me, what is your “WHY”?

Vice Busting...everything else is just a diet!

Julia
 

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Comments on this post

# RE: Who am I to Give Diet Advice?

I was asked to teach Sunday School at my church and my first thought was, "How can I do that with the back pain I have?" I know the back pain is caused by excess weight. I want to lose weight so I have less pain. And I want to have less pain so I'm not limited in the things I can do.
Left by daisy2803 on Nov 09, 2007 10:27 AM

# RE: Who am I to Give Diet Advice?

I hate it that I can't get down on the floor and play with my kids. I want to lose weight so I can love my kids better. I want to love them better because they are the most important thing in my life.
Left by karenmar on Nov 09, 2007 10:28 AM

# RE: Who am I to Give Diet Advice?

Daisy, Here is a quote that I want you to keep in mind "going without unhealthy foods that you "love" is NOT deprivation but rather continuing to eat them and deprive yourself of your goals and dreams in life...THAT is deprivation!"

Your weight is causing the back pain and losing each 10 pounds of it will improve your quality of life and health dramatically. What is your worst "diet vice" or foood that you eat too much off?

Karen, I wanted to be able to play w/ my kids too--run in the park play areas and be a kid. My advice to you is get down on the floor, play! do it again tomorrow. Take them to the park, go on walks with them because you can't wait until your body is thinner to start being more active; you start being more active and your body will gradually get thinner!

Julia
Left by JuliaHavey on Nov 09, 2007 1:34 PM

# RE: Who am I to Give Diet Advice?

My worst diet vice has to be "eating out". I hate to cook and LOVE going out to eat!
Left by daisy2803 on Nov 09, 2007 2:14 PM

# RE: Who am I to Give Diet Advice?

It sounds crazy, but thinner women are more respected in my office. I think maybe I might get a promotion at my job if I could lose these unwanted pounds.
Left by judithlovesjesus on Nov 09, 2007 5:33 PM

# RE: Who am I to Give Diet Advice?

The Why for me is to have more energy to keep up with my 6 grandchildren and the 50 plus children I minister to every Sunday! Sweets are my weakness, especially at night when I am all alone!
Left by PastorMese on Nov 09, 2007 7:54 PM

# RE: Who am I to Give Diet Advice?

Thank you, Julia. I've just come to accept the extra 60-80 lbs., instead of being depressed about it, I've just tried to ignore it. Your blog struck a chord--ice cream would have to be mine as well(though it's hard to pick just one!).
Left by joyannasmama on Nov 10, 2007 11:10 AM

# RE: Who am I to Give Diet Advice?

Daisy, my adice would be to find a few meals/recipes that you LIKE and won't mind making and maybe try to cut in 1/2 how often you eat out. That would be a great start!
Left by JuliaHavey on Nov 13, 2007 9:49 AM

# RE: Who am I to Give Diet Advice?

Judith, not crazy at all! We have seen it proven when the put a woman in a "FAT" suit and send her out looking for jobs; as a "thin" woman she gets the offer, as a "FAT" Woman she is sent packing.

It is the last legal discrimination.

But, don't let it stop you from getting healthy, make your new resolve to improve your health also improve you as a worker and they will have no choice but to give it to you!
Left by JuliaHavey on Nov 13, 2007 10:47 AM

# RE: Who am I to Give Diet Advice?

PastorMese, let me ask you this, which is sweeter? the little children or the food? I am willing to bet there is not ONE food on this world you would rather have over the love of one of your grandbabies, and the 50 other children entrusted to you-you can easily pass up the lesser sweets so that you have more improved health to play better with them for many years to come!

Joyannsmamma,can't ignore it nor get depressed about it, you work to improve it! Busting your vice of ice cream is a GREAT start in the right direction!
Left by JuliaHavey on Nov 15, 2007 12:07 AM