“I’d like to stay and do a little more work on our relationship,” Tanya said recently, nearing the end of a three-day Marriage Intensive. Her words hit a raw chord with Rod, her husband of 20 years. “Are you kidding?” he said in disbelief. “We’ve been here for three days and I want to get home.” “We came all this way to work on our marriage,” Tanya continued, showing her sadness and hurt. “I’d like to work on intimacy in our marriage...